Why We Should not be Embarrassed by Antoine Dodson

Since the airing of Antoine Dodson, I’ve been on NUMEROUS news sites and blogs, I’ve had numerous instant message conversations, I’ve had numerous debates on why I’m NOT embarrassed by Antoine Dodson.  I remember watching the video of “Soulja Girl”, the young woman in Atlanta that verbally assaulted and terrorized an elderly lady on a train and I watched in disgust as NOBODY WENT TO DEFEND HER.  All the men that were sitting in her surrounding seat, sat by idle.  It took more than half of the recording for someone to step in AND if you remember correctly, he only stepped in because Soulja Girl began to verbally attack him.  She said “wait a minute..you’re the one who raped me.”  Then and ONLY then did he get involved.  NOT because he was protecting this elderly lady.  Here you have Antoine Dodson, who probably weighs 95lbs with rocks in his pocket, protecting and defending his sister.  Although the clip is hilarious, all you that have issue with it have never ONCE mention the fact that a woman almost got raped.  That someone crept in this woman’s window and tried to rape her with her baby in the bed.  Antoine is more of a man than any one of those men that sat on that train and did absolutely nothing to protect that elderly woman.  Out of pure frustration and spending hours arguing with people online, I gave up on this situation.  Then one of the most brilliant women I’ve recently encountered on Twitter (@drgoddess) wrote everything I could think of but of course in a more brilliant way:

Our Fascination with the Antoine Dodson Situation by Dr. Goddess

Antoine received his own Brown Twitter Bird. He’s Our Hero.

So, I was trying to at least partially explain why Black people love Twitter and what we do on the medium when I decided to include the overnight sensation of Antoine Dodson.

Thus, I wrote the following:

Thus, if they can’t understand something so simple, then they wouldn’t understand why, even though we are really (really!!!) appalled by both home invasion and rape, we love the Antoine Dodson story and find he, his sister, Kelly, (and his other family members) so funny.

And if that’s the case, they REALLY wouldn’t understand why a remix (auto-tune) song was made of his rant, why Antoine has 13 Twitter accounts, a website, is selling T-shirts and has a hotline—all this from the attempted rape of his sister by a roving rapist in their Huntsville, Alabama, Lincoln Park neighborhood. America, gotta love it.

But I couldn’t let that be the end of my commentary on Antoine. His story, how and why he became an overnight sensation says so much about America, Black folks, race, class, gender and sexuality, so I HAD to write on it.

The Reasons Why We Love Antoine And Think He’s Funny is Because:

1. His sister, Kelly Dodson, said she was “attacked by some idiot from out here in the projects…and it ain’t just ’cause I’m cute. I KNOW that! Okay, first, we all know an idiot in our community but we think it’s hilarious that she applied this term to an attempted rapist. Second, saying “in the projects” is just funny, period, probably because it’s unnecessary or maybe because it’s even funnier that she pointed it out. Third, because unlike the popularized notion that poor people who need public housing are synonymous with lacking intellect or reason, Kelly is here to let you know otherwise, hence the distinction—and we love it! Kelly also seems to have a very healthy self-esteem…

2. Antoine begins the (aired) phase of his interview with “Well, OBVIOUSLY, we have a rapist in Lincoln Park”. For me, it sounds like a retort to the reporter who, undoubtedly asked something akin to “So, what do you think about your sister’s attempted rape?” And, despite lacking media training, Antoine delivered (well!) what media experts say you should do, breaking down his thought into three main points:

a. They’re climbing in your windows
b. They’re snatching your people up
c. They’re trying to rape you

And then a call to action:
a. Hide your kids
b. Hide your wife
c. Hide your husband

With a repeated main point and public warning:
a. They rapin’ everybody out here!

3. Antoine is signifying VERY well. Not only does he know his multiple audiences, he is unafraid of the camera, so he tells the news reporter what is “obvious”, warns the community and then has a message for the rapist, while personifying and rolling up on and into the camera.

4. Antoine threatens the rapist with bodily harm, even though he looks like he weighs approximately 105lbs, soaking wet. Nevertheless, when Antoine heard his sister scream, he ran into her bedroom and fought off the attacker, who eventually got away The camera shots in the bedroom demonstrated some heavy physical activity in the bedroom, which shows that Antoine is a man of his word. Still, the footage was funny because it points us back to Antoine’s use of his lean, muscle mass.

5. Antoine produced an excellent soliloquy (in exactly 14 seconds) ending with, “cause they rapin’ everybody up in here”. How Antoine turned one home invasion and attempted rape into a maelstrom of kidnappers and rapists to inspire public mayhem is beyond me; but then, if there was more protection perhaps hyperbole wouldn’t be necessary. (Update: After I wrote this, I found out how real this statement actually was. Keep reading…)

6. We are a bit unsure as to where we should hide everybody. And, yet, we feel safe with Antoine. What I most appreciate about his soliloquy is that he holds marriage and the family unit in high esteem (hide your kids, wife, husband). It’s not the religious right, it’s Antoine that knows about family values!

7. Antoine exposed the utter lack of concern for security in “the built environment” of the projects by demonstrating how easy it was for someone to just to a “two-step” (garbage-can-to-ledge, ledge-to-window) climb up into a resident’s bedroom. It’s appalling, really—and yet shamefully funny when we laugh to keep from crying.

8. Antoine’s (lack of) faith in (or understanding of) the justice system that leads him straight to a declaration that is simultaneously inclusive of the police investigators (“you left your fingerprints and everything!”) and completely devoid of their further involvement (“we gon’ find you and when we do…”).

Do recall that “9-1-1 is a Joke” was a very popular song by the rap group, Public Enemy.

9. Although it would be easy to try to classify Antoine as one of the lesser visible “homothugs” in the Hip Hop music world, it is probably more accurate to simply acknowledge that Antoine is just a more “feminine” man and/or gay. He is also neither a rapper nor a musician.

10. Interestingly, in this interview, the newscasters revealed that they received some backlash at the station for airing Antoine’s interview. And we certainly know why, don’t we? Lazy news reporters usually find the first (and sometimes only) ignorant person they can find (usually with rollers in her hair or him only partially dressed) to interview about a story in the Black community, despite how many other persons are standing around that could offer a more articulate analysis (and a seemingly better representation of Black folks).

And in that context, they are most certainly right.

But herein lies the problem of what Cornel West calls “the white, normative gaze” and our seeming need to promote middle class sensibilities; because there is nothing wrong with Antoine. Or his story. Or how he chose to express himself. Kelly and Antoine were very clear…they live in the projects. They are also Southern…they live in Huntsville, Alabama. And they both had a right to be exceptionally angry about Kelly’s attempted rape. Yet, even in their rage, they exhibited more intelligence and articulated a sense of well-being than many of the persons who have been elected or otherwise appointed (and some self-appointed) to represent us.

Embarrassed by Antoine?! Please. We should be thankful he’s here. He may just force us to redefine our priorities and how we think we understand one another.

Antoine Dodson’s character seems to be better than most.

This is what led me to delve further into his story. I had written all of the above before talked to a girlfriend who sent me to this NPR news story. I like it and agree with it. It just did not go far enough for me. When I found Antoine Dodson’s YouTube Channel, I watched an NPR Interview.

What I Learned from Antoine’s Interview on NPR, August 11, 2010:
1. The damage done to the room in which his sister and he fought off her attacker was much worse than what we saw on television.

2. His sister, Kelly and her mother were so afraid during the attack that they both urinated on themselves.

3. Before calling the police, they called six friends to help and for support.

4. After telling the Housing Authority officer, she just laughed the situation off and never took it seriously.

5. The police “eventually” showed up and opened an investigation.

6. It was Antoine, his sister and friends who were infuriated that no one was taking the situation seriously, so they started calling the news stations themselves. They did not receive an answer. They called WAFF first.

7. To their surprise, WAFF News showed up and Antoine and Kelly willingly gave interviews because they wanted everyone to know what happened to them and what could potentially happen to others.

Unsurprisingly, some people wondered if Antoine was acting, to which he offered a negative and said, “I was so mad, I wanted to choke the camera…” and when he was asked whether or not the perpetrator had been found, he answered:

No, they haven’t found the guy, yet, that’s why it’s still not safe to bring the kids out… hide your kids, hide your wives and hide your husbands…but when he do get caught, we will let the world know.

Just remember, Antoine, that catching the perpetrator is not your responsibility.

Now, I enjoyed The Gregory Brothers’ AutoTune The News Remix and heard it, for the first time, driving down the highway in Los Angeles. I, too, was shocked by the popularity of the “bed intruder”. And by the time you have read this post, Antoine Dodson will have been viewed 10 MILLION TIMES.

In response to his newfound fame, Antoine offered the following and as he shared his story, it forced me to spring into action:

I went to bed a nobody. Woke up, all of this happened. Woke up again the next day and it’s like, bam, Antoine Dodson, everybody knows him.

We wanted our stories to be heard so, be careful what you ask for… ‘cause now the whole world knows and now I’m glad because I want the whole world to know. You can’t sweep situations like this under the rug… and it’s been a lot of complaints…and even before my sister [was] attacked, there was a lot of people complaining about how people [were] getting raped in the projects…and people would just sweep it under the rug and not talk about it.

The next day [after] that happened, a lady came to us and was like, “There was a man standing at my window but I called my boyfriend, he went to the window and the guy left. Same projects, the very next day. So, I’m like, are you serious, you know what I’m saying? Like, what do we need to do as people to keep our community safe?…You know what I’m saying like..’cause nobody’s talkin’ about it now, I mean, the world knows but here, locally, here in Huntsville, it’s like, okay, it’s a joke, everybody’s takin’ it to be a joke, it’s funny to them, you know what I’m sayin’… I’m makin’ their city look bad, I’m makin’ their community look bad, you know what I’m sayin’ so, I guess…?

Stupid interviewer guy sweeps that issue under the rug (even after Antoine told him earlier that Kelly WAS hurt in the struggle) and reminds Antoine that “thankfully, no one got really hurt…it was an intrusion, you intervened…everybody’s okay, people need to watch out for this guy who’s on the run…but I mean, as far as how you’re dealing with it now, as someone with a celebrity status…”Can you believe it? He goes right to Antoine’s newfound fame on the internet. Darn you, interviewer! Darn you!

Antoine thinks the Gregory Brothers’ Remix is quite funny, also. It makes him laugh and since it doesn’t seem as though Antoine is a singer or a rapper, he seems to enjoy the part-fantasy of himself as a singer. But Antoine is not so blinded by his fame that he ignored the central issue nor abdicated his responsibility to articulate what other community members have shared.

So, I have a different message for Antoine because Kelly and his family are VICTIMS and although I appreciate their resilience, the interview makes it clear there is a pattern of disempowerment, disengagement and even disbelief that these issues keep being “swept under the rug”.

Kelly and Antoine Dodson, I just sent a letter to Mayor Battle and Mr. Michael Lundy of the Huntsville Housing Authority on your behalf because I am a concerned citizen and can’t just sit back and laugh at the hilarity of the videos on YouTube and then not do something to assist you all.

Since YOU were the ones that were proactive about the lack of proper safety in Lincoln Park and having your needs taken seriously, please make sure you follow up with these persons and please pass this information on to every single one of your neighbors. You all do not have to be silent and, although the auto-tune song is funny, all of you all’s claims need to be taken seriously. So, please use this information as you see fit and I will encourage everyone else to do so as well. Your story has only just begun, Sweethearts!

Please keep us updated and I’ll do the same. We have to hold these people accountable.

Your City Housing Authority Office is:
Michael O. Lundy, Executive Director/CEO
His Email
200 Washington Street • P.O. Box 486 • Huntsville, Alabama 35804-0486
Phone: (256) 539-0774 • Fax: (256) 535-2245
Assisted Housing (Section 8) Fax: (256) 539-5982

“Growing community one family at a time.”

HHA’s next Board Meeting is scheduled for
Wednesday, August 25, 2010, at 12:00 noon
Oscar Mason Center, 149 Mason Court.

Your Mayor and Boss of the Housing Authority is:
Mayor Tommy Battle is on Twitter!
@TommyBattle  (<—Tweet Him!!!)
Facebook Page

Your City Council Representative is:
Dr. Richard Showers, District 1, Huntsville City Council
308 Fountain Circle
7th Floor
Huntsville, Alabama 35801
256-427-5011 Tel
256-427-5024 FAX
His Email

Your Regional HUD Office is:
Cindy Yarbough
Field Office Director (205) 731-2617
Fax (205) 731-2593
Email Region IV
Atlanta GA

Birmingham Field Office
950 22nd St North
Suite. 900
Birmingham, AL 35203-5302

Your State Representative is on Vacation but can be found here.

Your Congressional Representative is:
Congressman Parker Griffith, 5th District of Alabama
He doesn’t have a regular email address and only wants to hear from Constituents.
Others can contact him here:

Huntsville District Office
2101 Clinton Ave. W. Suite 302
Huntsville, AL 35805
Phone: (256) 551-0190
Fax: (256) 551-0194

Antoine, I want you and Kelly and the community of Lincoln Park to have “the last laugh”, so here is a letter any of your supporters can use to contact the Mayor and the President of the Housing Authority. I sent a longer one already that I will email to you for your records. Your supporters should feel free to change this letter or write their own. Let’s make sure they take care of the issue and protect the community.

August 13, 2010

Dear Mayor Tommy Battle and Mr. Michael O. Lundy:

I am writing out of concern for the safety and quality of life of the Lincoln Park residents residing in the Huntsville Housing Authority properties, in general, and Kelly and Antoine Dodson’s family, in particular.

When I looked on the Huntsville Housing Authority website, I observed that, “the mission of The Authority is to eliminate the negative influence of poverty in public housing.” I am inspired by your mission but troubled by what appears to be the lack of application of your mission by one or more HHA employees. When I listened to Mr. Dodson’s interview, I was struck by his narrative (outside of the hilarity of his flamboyance and the creativity of the two brothers who created the song now popularized on the internet) because it pointed to a particular failure on Housing Authority officials to take the home invasion and subsequent attack upon his family members seriously. They did what they were supposed to do. They called the police and reported it to the Housing Authority.

According to Antoine Dodson, despite his internet fame, no one is addressing the issue locally and his story is treated as more of a joke and an embarrassment to the community and the city, as opposed to the real threat of public well-being that their horror demonstrates.

I am writing this open letter to you because the situation is already out in the open and by the time you read this, 10 MILLION people will know about Antoine Dodson, his sister Kelly and the attempted rape in the Lincoln Park projects in Huntsville, Alabama. As you know, being poor does not have to mean being a perpetual victim and never heard. This is why we love Kelly and Antoine Dodson, are proud of their heroism, resilience and outspokenness.

The only thing embarrassing about this situation is the manner in which the Dodson family has been dismissed by the very persons who are supposed to represent them and help provide for their well-being.

I would appreciate hearing back from you and wish you and the community the best as you seek to resolve this issue and further empower your residents to live in a safe and wholesome environment, “Growing community one family at a time.”



UPDATE: Both @happybrowngirl and @Wakandan_Knight sent me this video of North Carolina A & T’s band playing the Gregory Brother’s Auto-Tune “Bed Intruder” song:

This is amazing talent and I love it.

All that I ask is for all of you reading and all of you making pictures and T-Shirts and all of you posting & RT’ing the videos and sending it on your phones (and that makes about 11 MILLION (!!!) of you now, PLEASE just take 10 more seconds to post this blog, email a letter and RT this message:

Petition Mayor @Tommybattle to protect Kelly and #AntoineDodson and the Lincoln Park Comm. http://act.ly/2aq RT to sign

Please remember there are Human Beings and a Horror Story behind this great curiosity and explosion of creativity. Taking a moment to help Kelly and Antoine Dodson and the entire Lincoln Park community will make all of you as genuine a hero as they are. Let us support their resilience with a piece of ACTION to end the nightmare.

I say this especially to all of you White people and Black college students on the internet and the Brothers and Sisters in the hood on their cell phones. You don’t realize how influential you really are. Take 2 seconds to tweet the Mayor by signing the petition on Twitter.

Poor people deserve civil and human rights, too, no matter what they look like, no matter how they sound, no matter how much or how little education they have had.

And often times, we as young people, as Black and Brown and/or poor and/or White and poor, rarely understand how policy decisions affect our lives and how we can live as empowered beings.  You have a voice. Use it. Antoine and Kelly did, so follow their great example.

Sincerely and With Love,

Dr. Goddess

(Special thanks to my Twitter family for keeping this story alive, RTing the blog and adding to a great discussion. Follow the hashtag: #AntoineDodson)

Please check out her blog:  http://drgoddess.blogspot.com/


5 comments on “Why We Should not be Embarrassed by Antoine Dodson

  1. A joy to read, a responsible citizen, thoughtful critic. I like it! One thing… what is your name??? i cant find it anywhere. Great article. I agree with the whole thing – for whatever that’s worth.


  2. I’ve enjoyed reading about/watching the turn of events for Antoine Dodson and his family (and the Gregory Bros. – AutoTune-In-The-News is HILARIOUS). I’ve actually only been perturbed by comments by some Black folk (I’m Black so I’m allowed by law, constitutional amendments, and the Oprah Winfrey book club rules to toss such terms around); especially when terms THEY’VE tossed around include “embarrassment” and “minstrelsy.” Minstrelsy? Really? Why?

    Was the headscarf wearing representative of minstrelsy?
    If the wearing of head-scarves denoted minstrelsy, then 75% of our people could wear that label…we don’t ALL have “Indian” in our family…just sayin’.

    Was it his wearing of a headscarf during the interview?
    Perhaps those of you shaking your head at that action would assert that after an attempted sexual assault of one’s family member, any reasonable person would find the nearest curling iron and flat-iron, or simply refuse to aid in identifying a would-be sexual predator.

    Those finger wagging members of the Black Bourgeoisie should be reminded of how frequently crimes against African-Americans aren’t given equal time by the media; they should be reminded of how a White woman’s stolen wonder-bra gets more news coverage than so many crimes and injustices against Black people; of how the media is seemingly unaware that OUR Black children disappear TOO, OUR Black women are assaulted TOO (guess they’re too busy extrapolating details on Nancy Grace about what happened to some poor White lady 11 months ago…to that end, does Nancy Grace know we have Black people in this country?…I’ve never seen her discuss any during her show…just sayin’). In reality, the poorest of us are often treated as the least of us, and unfortunately, being poor AND Black in is often tantamount to being invisible in today’s media (unless you’re the perpetrator).

    So, again I ask… minstrelsy? Neither Antoine Dodson nor his sister spewed expletives, double-negatives or (intentional) rap lyrics during the interview. They answered the questions about the incident clearly and concisely, while managing to do something even the Congressional Black Caucus, Al Sharpton or his hair-dresser have been unable to do: in a largely White, southern community, he got the media to report on crime AGAINST an African-American family.

    I’m a middle class Black woman living/working in the D.C. Metro Area, and a native of the 9th ward in New Orleans. And while I’ve achieved financial/career success, I don’t suffer from any delusions about where I come from (which included the Florida Housing Projects for six years during my childhood). I don’t suffer any form of amnesia regarding what it is to struggle, or what it’s like when you’re just trying to make it from day to day/get by.

    That said, I’m pleased and proud that Antoine Dodson was able to speak his mind, get his story out, and—after other people promulgated his story in the media—had the intelligence to take actions which have allowed both he and his family to benefit from it.

    To all the bourgeois, elite, pseudo-intellectual, probably-speak-with-fake-British-accents-even-though-they-don’t-have-passport Black folks out there looking down on a brother who is representative of so many, the only embarrassing response has been YOURS.

    • EXACTLY MONIQUE! Girlfriend, you hit it on the head!
      I understand that the media and society has perpetrated this image of black.. that anything negative on the news or on tv is a representation of the entire black community. First we need to stop accepting that. But furthermore, if we’re embarrassed by a man protecting a women in his community then who should we REALLY be embarrassed about? We hear so many stories about black men not stepping up and leaving us hanging and not being the provider and protector anymore. Here we have a man risking his life for his sister. Oh how soon we forget when we get a little bit of mone and status!

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